The trauma of transition
Students often view the transition from primary to secondary school with mixed emotions. For most, the anxiety of taking that first step from the familiar into the unknown evaporates quickly as they become used to their new surroundings and routines. But so many changes in such a short space of time can be daunting for some new students and leave them feeling unsettled. How your son responds can prove a turning point in his social and academic development.
At XXXX College our aim is to foster a strong and supportive school community that is accepting and welcoming to all. We are acutely aware of the ways in which stress can stifle new students and have built a support structure to help both pupils and parents cope with the upheaval. This structure consists of a number of programmes and processes that have been put in place to help your son feel at ease, valued and a part of the school from his very first day.
We start building a sense of belonging from day one, when we assign your son to one of our four Houses – each named after one of the founding Brothers of the school; XXXX, XXXX, XXXX and XXXX. Not only do the boys compete under these banners in the inter-house competitions, they also participate in activities, camps and retreats with other boys from their own House. These Houses form the basis of your son’s support network during his entire time at Parade. Each has its own team of student welfare coordinators and tutor teachers, and is overseen by a House Leader who has overall responsibility for your son’s wellbeing at school.
All new students are automatically assigned to a tutor group of 24, or less, boys from the junior grades – all from the same House. The purpose is to establish a collective sense of identity and to expose the new students to a wider support and encouragement network of boys who have gone, or are going, through similar experiences. Each group is assigned a tutor teacher, who then becomes the first point of contact for your son for everything from academia to social and emotional needs while he is at the College. In order to retain a sense of continuity and to maintain trust, your son retains the same tutor for his first three years at the College.
XXXX also has other programmes and policies in place to ease your son’s transition from being one of the older pupils at primary school to one of the younger students at secondary school. It can be intimidating for year 7 boys to suddenly find themselves a small fish in a big pond once more, and so we assign each a year 12 mentor who will try and steady the waters of that first year for them.
We are also mindful that for students and their families, starting at a secondary school can illicit fears of bullying. At XXXX, we enforce a zero-tolerance approach and have a policy in place to address any and every instance of bullying. The policy is designed to provide support to the victim and to educate the bully on the consequences of his actions. This is dealt with through the existing, trusted support groups that have been created within the Houses. The safe environment of the established tutor groups can make it less confronting for students to report and seek advice on how to manage this kind of behaviour.
To us, managing the transition from primary to secondary school is all about creating a strong and supportive community across both our campuses, to ensure our students feel safe, valued and enabled to learn. The concept of an inclusive community is one of the four touchstones of the school’s strategic direction through which our long-term goals are defined.


